Centered on my test size of 4 (doubt then experencing v different marriages than their friends with UK wives if there is research on this) I have noticed British men marrying Mediterranean/Asian women and. The 4 under consideration can be mysogynistic as a whole nevertheless the method they treat their spouses, we cannot imagine as numerous ethnic Uk ladies placing up with. They’ve been very nearly slaves, chained into the homely household, do 100% housework/childcare ( and none among these males work extended hours/ have actually commutes). They usually have a lot of hobbies, spouses have actually none. Vehicle is actually because of their single usage. etcetera etc.
So, i’ve started initially to think: have actually these guys deliberatly sought after these ‘submissive’ spouses? Is it simply a blip in ppl i recognize or part of the wider trend?
It is interesting because We knew a British guy whom married a lady he’d came across on the net from Khazakstan, and she explained that whenever he attempted to assist her into the home she felt embarrassing and embarrassed, therefore would simply tell him to get and take a seat.
Therefore possibly it isn’t that the males are ‘treating’ these females differently – perhaps the ladies prefer it that real way, because that is really what they truly are familiar with?
It is also interesting because mediterranean/asian men often love to marry European ladies properly because European women can be a a bit more feisty and independent. That, needless to say, does cause dilemmas into the relationships considering that the males like a number of the independence that is feisty although not all (can not deal with their lovers having male friends/don’t do cooking/like to laze around on the sofa all day/don’t perform some long difficult slog of evenings with newborns etc etc).Read More